BreaKing The Vow

What would U feel when sum1, nope!
Your Best frenz, U  know him since U r young, play 2gether, sharing anyting, no secret life and bla bla bla.....
Means U r really believe, breaking his promises.....

It can be forgiven if like u promise u will giv ur frenz a car next month, then a next week, u seek for forgiveness coz u can't do dat....r8???

How bout U promise me to g sumwhere that both agreed and I'd pack evrything and prepare myself waitin 4 u 2 pick me up.... then Ur message drive into my Inbox and say "Sorry beb, I can't go 2day, coz I got sumtin urgent"... that soooooooo URGHHH UMPPHHHH FFFFFF TTTT GRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!

U had ruin sumone life!!!! What will happen if u agree the thing that will affect my fate??? my future life????

Hell yeah!!!!! of coz Im really angry!!!! Who will not????? Then after 3 weeks, u appear and say "Sorry der... r u still mad???? " damn u!!!

If u can't fulfill your promise, pleaz don't do dat... u r muslim, I think, Islam teach U perfectly bout the life.....

Juz say "InsyaAllah, I will".... then If u feel really cannot do dat, please dun make a promise.... Make it clear when the sun is still bright - i mean don't mess up at the end of timeline.

Sahih International

And never say of anything, "Indeed, I will do that tomorrow,"

Tafsir al-Jalalayn
And never say regarding something, that is, for the purpose of [doing] something, ‘I will indeed do that tomorrow’, in other words, [I will do something] at some future [point] in time,

Sahih International

Except [when adding], "If Allah wills." And remember your Lord when you forget [it] and say, "Perhaps my Lord will guide me to what is nearer than this to right conduct."

Tafsir al-Jalalayn

without [adding], ‘If God will’, in other words, unless [firmly] adhering to the will of God, exalted be He, by saying, ‘If God will’ (inshā’a’Llāh). And remember your Lord, that is, [remember] His will, making [things] conditional on it, if you forget, to make [things] conditional on it: mentioning it after forgetting [it] is the equal [in validity] to mentioning it at the time of the statement — as al-Hasan [al-Basrī] and others have said — as long as the person is still in the [same] place [in which he made the statement]. And say, ‘May be my Lord will guide me to [something] closer [in time] than this, [closer] than the story of the People of the Cave, as an indication of [the truth of] my prophethood, by way of guidance, and God indeed did so.

Looking on my side, its really hurt.....
But how bout when we r on the other side?.....
Yeah!!! we r suck r8???? If we r heartless man, better leave it....
Now what I wanna talk bout the man who breakin his own promises and regret it....


“… They should rather pardon and overlook. Would you not love Allah to forgive you? Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” (Qur’an, 24:22)

“The repayment of a bad action is one equivalent to it. But if someone pardons and puts things right, his reward is with Allah…” (Qur’an, 42:40)

“…. But if you pardon and exonerate and forgive, Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful.” (Qur’an, 64: 14)


 Then the morale is, if sumone ask for forgiveness and admit his errors, there is not a big deal to say 

"I Have forgiven you"

Plus sum smile in ur face....
Yeah I noe, its hurt... but i think if U let ur angry for a week.... i think its enough to teach him/her....



 
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